We are Abusing**! Oh..No!

“A foul tongue reveals a lot more about you than the one you are using it against”

So many times we read in books, heard from our elders that words cannot be taken back. But does this same assertion do not imply to us when we become rude or for our fun use vulgar language?

Nowadays, in every movie or web series, we will hear bad words and that is highly affecting today’s generation. The youth of today feels proud that he/she is abusing, they consider themselves as cool by doing so.

We often use awful words to describe our emotions and that does not only counts anger but also happiness or sadness. But is it advisable to take support of this language to express our emotions and deal with problems? We are so used to this language that we cannot imagine our life without it, in every statement we use such terms, without these, we feel that our talk is unsatisfactory.

We as elders use this language without even noticing that it is creating a deep impact on the upcoming and growing generation. Even children are using these words to mark themselves as dudes or cools.

We are so used to these things that we do not take pain to know what these words mean. Relating bad words to your family members not just makes you corrupt but also shows that how much honor is within you for others. It has maintained a place in our vocabulary without us realizing which has become a natural reaction. It is so much built-in in our temperament that before using such offensive language we don’t even think about whom we are talking to, where are we sitting, or what work we are doing.

We should understand that using these ways to express our emotions is not worthy. Cursing someone is not helpful nor it brings out any solution. You will feel better after using such words but the emotions of the ones who are becoming prey will be highly affected. If you are feeling that choosing this specific language to communicate with others makes you a cool or a chill personality then you are wrong. It can leave a bad impression on a person and shows a sign of immaturity.

There are many other ways to talk politely, to convince anyone, to resolve a fight, to have fun but choosing this as a means to have fun is no option. Frequent use of uttering profanity in ordinary language can cause trouble in both professional and personal life.

There are several ways by which you can control using these words: whenever you feel angry and it is difficult for you to regulate yourself then just take a deep breath or write down your thoughts on a piece of paper then throw it into a dustbin. Try using various techniques to stop yourself from using offensive language and you will surely see a change in yourself. Council your siblings and little ones that how worse can it be to curse someone as the future is in their hands.

It is easy to make something a habit but a challenge to let go of that habit, so this is a challenge for you to improve yourself.

-Aishwarya Gupta

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