Used to know them the best, but now can’t even remember their names!
Time changes, relationships change, and our lives also change.
With time, we become mature, and that’s natural. Between so many changes, one day we do realize that the people who were so important in our lives, the ones with whom we used to spend our entire days, with whom we shared our thoughts, with whom we celebrated our happiness, cried over our sorrows are no longer a part of even an everyday greeting.
The ones with whom we were so attached, cannot even imagine a day without them, craving their presence, and have now become strangers.
Time makes us forget even the sweetest memories with that one friend with whom we had hundreds.
But now, that person is the one whom we can never reach again, can never understand, can never help even if we wish to, can never share the same bond as before, or can never recreate those special moments when we both enjoyed each other’s company.
Out of the blue, we even try to resolve that one but once a bond is broken it would never be the same again. There will always be a crack that will not be completely fixed, an impression of the past: might be of their behavior, their actions towards us, some unresolved misunderstandings would always be there which can never be healed.
It’s so strange that we meet so many people every day, but each day we don’t even realize that we are slowly and steadily losing that person.
Do you remember your friends with whom you used to play in childhood? Sometimes right? What were the memories?
Just awesome, worth remembering, and deep inside we all want to experience that again, because we were ourselves with them, we trusted them and loved them even more.
But are you in touch with them? The answer would be mostly a NO and that is why because due to some reason or another you lost that one friend.
It’s not our mistake that we lose people, life is like a movie, and people in it are like characters, some can be evil whereas some can be worth living for.
People will come and go, and yes we do choose the wrong people sometimes, and as time passes by we lose touch.
It is easy to let people go out of our lives, but it’s very hard to make people stay with us.
Care for those who are with you right now, make them feel special, and spend time with them because a movie without characters is not worth watching.
Try to forgive people. But also don’t struggle with people who take you for granted, maintain a distance, and let time decide where it takes you.
By Aishwarya Gupta
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